Lessons we learn from everyday questions

Category: Human Behavior

  • What Does “It’s Not That Deep” Really Mean?

    It sounds simple, but the phrase might carry more depth than you’d think Question: When people say “It’s not that deep,” what exactly is meant by that? When someone says “it’s not that deep,” they’re usually trying to pull you back to the surface of something you’re mentally diving into. It’s a phrase that essentially…

  • Does He Really Not Want To, or Is He Just Not Ready?

    The popular phrase “If he wanted to, he would” hides a deeper truth about human complexity and emotional readiness Question: Men, how true is the phrase “if he wanted to, he would” in terms of a relationship? The phrase “If he wanted to, he would” is sharp, catchy, and weaponized by countless advice columns, TikToks,…

  • When Did We Stop Asking Why?

    In an age of instant answers, the slow disappearance of deep curiosity might be our quietest loss Question: What has quietly disappeared from society over the past 30 years without people noticing? Curiosity. Not the surface-level type that scrolls through trivia or watches a conspiracy video on YouTube. But real, deep, soul-stirring curiosity—the kind that…

  • Do They Find You Attractive? Here’s How to Tell Without Asking

    Attraction rarely announces itself loudly—it hides in small gestures, quiet moments, and the spaces between words Question: How can you tell when people find you attractive? Attraction often doesn’t announce itself with fireworks. It’s subtle. It hums beneath casual words, lingers in stolen glances, and dances at the edges of our interactions. You might miss…

  • What the Huzz Does “Huzz” Mean Anyway?

    It’s more than just slang—it’s internet culture in its most chaotic, meme-powered form Question: Like seriously, what does “huzz” even mean? The word “huzz” is a chaotic Gen Z internet slang term that means… well, it kind of depends who you ask—and when you ask them. At face value, huzz is typically used to refer…

  • Why Are We So Embarrassed by Things No One Cares About?

    Embarrassment thrives in isolation. So let this be your permission slip: you don’t have to apologize for being human. Wear the outfit again. Eat the damn cheeseburger. Laugh loudly. Let your body exist without shame. You’re not a problem to be fixed—you’re a person to be loved. And chances are, the only person judging you…

  • How Much Would You Pay to Feel Alive Again?

    Expensive hobbies aren’t really about money. They’re about how far you’re willing to go to feel something real again. Some people drop tens of thousands on photography—chasing light, composition, and emotion, frame by frame. Others dump their souls (and salaries) into saltwater aquariums, building small, glowing worlds more stable than their own. Still others skydive…